Insane, Unsound, And Just Plain Stupid: The 2018 Darwin Awards

Published December 25, 2018
Updated July 3, 2019

Murder Suspect Arrested After Accidentally Texting Detective

Man Texts Detective

Washington PostDavid Romig meant to text his wife, but accidentally directed his concerns to a detective instead.

This is either a case of a Darwin award winner or a person wracked with guilt.

David Romig, 52, of South Florida had been under investigation for the murder of his live-in girlfriend Sally Kaufmann-Ruff, 64, since Jan. 30, when paramedics found Kaufmann-Ruff unresponsive with a gunshot wound to the head.

At first, Romig claimed that he and Kaufmann-Ruff had been sleeping when someone entered the home. He claimed that the woman was shot during an altercation with the intruder. However, investigators thought the story was fishy from the start.

Romig also showed investigators a metal pipe, a cigarette butt, and a piece of fabric that he claimed belonged to the intruder, though his story of where they came from was not immediately believed.

Their suspicions were further aroused when, in what truly wins Romig a Darwin award, one of the detectives received text messages from him regarding the case.

“I think they are going to arrest me,” the first text said. “Think they are going to arrest,” said the next.

After being questioned about the messages, Romig admitted to the sheriff that he may have killed his girlfriend during an “out-of-body” experience.

Furthermore, the DNA testing done on the metal pipe and cigarette showed that both belonged to Romig. The fabric also belonged to Romig, and rather than having been torn from an intruders coat, police discovered it had been cut from a piece of his own clothing with a pair of scissors.

As investigators further questioned Romig, they discovered that the texts he had sent to the detective by mistake, were actually intended for his wife. He had texted her after the initial police questioning, telling her that someone had broken in and killed his girlfriend. He also told her he was afraid he may have done something he couldn’t remember.

Romig told investigators he periodically blacked out during the day, and often did things he couldn’t remember. He claimed that he’d had “out-of-body” experiences before, and had had one the morning of his girlfriend’s death.

Police have taken into account the fact that Romig was listed as the sole beneficiary of Kaufmann-Ruff’s will and was set to inherit more than $200,000 in liquid assets.

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Leah Silverman
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A former associate editor for All That's Interesting, Leah Silverman holds a Master's in Fine Arts from Columbia University's Creative Writing Program and her work has appeared in Catapult, Town & Country, Women's Health, and Publishers Weekly.
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John Kuroski
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John Kuroski is the editorial director of All That's Interesting. He graduated from New York University with a degree in history, earning a place in the Phi Alpha Theta honor society for history students. An editor at All That's Interesting since 2015, his areas of interest include modern history and true crime.
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Silverman, Leah. "Insane, Unsound, And Just Plain Stupid: The 2018 Darwin Awards." AllThatsInteresting.com, December 25, 2018, https://allthatsinteresting.com/darwin-awards-2018. Accessed February 1, 2025.