Mary "Mae" Coughlin was mostly known for being Al Capone's wife, but she was also his fierce protector when he fell gravely ill.
By all accounts, Mae Coughlin was like any other hardworking Irish American in the early 1900s. As the daughter of two immigrants, she was studious and ambitious. But her life would change forever when she met Al Capone.
While much has been written about the legendary Chicago mobster, his wife has been largely relegated to the sidelines. But it was her who protected him from opportunistic journalists when he became gravely ill due to advanced syphilis in his 40s. It was also her who made sure the mob didn’t worry about the former leader’s deteriorating mental state.
Though the beautiful woman was an angelic figure in her husband’s life, she was also complicit in his crimes. While she didn’t wield a gun at the bootlegging competition herself, Mae Capone was well aware of what her husband did for a living.
During Al Capone’s rise from a low-ranking thug to a fearsome mob boss, Mae was by his side. And she never left, even when his syphilitic brain reduced his mental capacity to that of a 12-year-old.
As Deirdre Bair’s book Al Capone: His Life, Legacy, and Legend put it:
“Mae was a ferocious protector. The Outfit knew he was cloistered and that Mae wouldn’t let him become a problem for them. And Mae knew all about the Outfit. She was one of those wives who made spaghetti for Al and the gang at 3 in the morning when they did business back when he was in charge. She must have heard everything.”
Life Before Al Capone
Mary “Mae” Coughlin was born on April 11, 1897 in Brooklyn, New York. Her parents had immigrated earlier that decade and started their family in America.
Raised near an Italian neighborhood, Capone’s brand of charm wouldn’t seem foreign to Mae, when the time came for the two of them to meet.
After Mae’s father died of a heart attack, the hardworking student left school at about age 16 to find a job at a box factory.
When she first met Al Capone a few years later, he also worked at a box factory — but he was already getting started on less legitimate side businesses with 1920s mobsters Johnny Torrio and Frankie Yale.
Though a prudent Irishwoman from a religious Catholic family bringing home an Italian street punk was odd, their relationship was truly a love story.
My Boyfriend Al Capone
Al Capone was about 18 when he first met Mae, who was two years older than him (a fact she would go to great lengths to hide throughout her life).
But despite his youth and mysterious side jobs, he thoroughly charmed his girlfriend’s family. Even when she became pregnant out of wedlock, she was allowed to live openly at home before they got hitched.
It’s unclear exactly how the couple first met, but some think they may have hit it off at a party in Carroll Gardens. Others speculate that Capone’s mother might have arranged their courtship.
For Capone, marrying an Irish Catholic woman who was more educated than him was a definite step up. Some viewed Mae’s decision to wed Capone as “marrying down,” but she found security and trust in him. After all, he made enough money to forward a good chunk of it to his mother.
Though Al Capone bedded countless women, he genuinely fell for Mae. Shortly after the birth of their first and only child, the unconventional couple got married at St. Mary Star of the Sea in Brooklyn in 1918.
Mae Capone’s Life As Al Capone’s Wife
By about 1920, Mae had moved to Chicago with her husband and son, Albert Francis “Sonny” Capone. Like his father before him, Sonny lost some of his hearing early on.
The gangster steadily rose in the ranks in the Windy City, but along the way he also contracted syphilis from a prostitute while working as a bouncer for mob boss James “Big Jim” Colosimo.
It’s still debated whether the couple’s lack of other children besides Sonny was due to Mae contracting the disease from her husband or not.
Capone would later experience severe cognitive decline due to his untreated disease. But before that happened, he built himself an empire in the underworld. After colluding with Torrio to murder Colosimo and take over his business, the newly-promoted thug began his rise as a top mob boss.
Mae was aware of his job, but it was his philandering that hurt her most. “Don’t do as your father did,” she reportedly told Sonny. “He broke my heart.”
Capone inherited the business in the late 1920s, after Torrio gave him the reins. From then on, it was a roaring rampage of bootlegging, bribing cops, and murdering the competition.
“I’m just a businessman, giving the people what they want,” he’d say. “All I do is satisfy a public demand.”
After Capone was nabbed for tax evasion on Oct. 17, 1931, Mae visited him in prison, where his health started to visibly decline.
News of his mysterious health issues made the papers, with an overwhelmed Mae being mobbed by press hounds when she arrived at at the penitentiary.
“Yes, he is going to get well,” she reportedly said. “He is suffering from dejection and a broken spirit, aggravated by intense nervousness.”
Mae Capone: Protector Of An Ailing Husband
Al Capone never improved. He had already begun to act strange behind bars, wearing winter clothes in his heated cell. After he was released early in 1939 for good behavior, he spent a short time seeking medical care in Baltimore before his family relocated to Palm Island, Florida.
The mob had moved on and restructured. They were satisfied to have Capone retire, paying him $600 per week — a pittance compared to his previous salary — just to stay quiet.
Before long, Capone began to have delusional chats with long-dead friends. He became Mae’s full-time job, most of which entailed keeping him away from reporters, who were routinely trying to catch a glimpse of him.
“She knew that it was dangerous for him to go out in public,” wrote author Deirdre Bair.
This was particularly concerning, as anything that painted Capone as a blabbermouth could cause his old friends to silence him for good.
But Mae was “protective of him to the end,” explained Bair.
She also made sure he got the best medical treatment. In fact, Capone was one of the first people to be treated with penicillin in the early 1940s, but by that point it was too late. His organs, including his brain, had begun to rot beyond repair. A sudden stroke in January 1947 allowed pneumonia to take hold in his body as his heart began to fail.
Mae asked her parish priest, Monsignor Barry Williams, to administer her husband’s last rites — knowing what was to come. Ultimately, Al Capone died of cardiac arrest on Jan. 25, 1947 after a series of health complications.
“Mama Mae seemed to need our company,” her granddaughters recalled. “It’s as if the house died when he did. Even though she lived to be eighty-nine… something in her died when he did.”
She never ascended to the second floor of the house again, and chose to sleep in another bedroom. She covered the living room furniture with sheets and refused to serve any meals in the dining room. In the end, Mae Capone died on April 16, 1986, in a nursing home in Hollywood, Florida.